What’s a common misconception people have about happiness?

I don’t know cause the happiest summer i ever had, i had the biggest hot girl summer on earth and just partied like hell with my friends all summer. So like did they judge me for it ? Absolutely. Did the hot girl summer ended up in me finding the love of my life and getting married ? Yes it did. Do I regret anything ? Not a single thing. So at the end of the what I’ve learned is people will judge you either way, so how about you just do something that makes YOU happy without thinking about the consequences, cause when you die are you gonna be able to be ok with the fact that you didn’t do the things you were scared of doing ? Don’t fear judgment from others just become someone you are proud of.